Sarah Lawrence Sarah Lawrence

Self-compassion and childlessness

As childless people we love talking with other childless not by choice people. Sarah Lawrence is our co-founder and a trauma-informed person-centred counsellor (MBACP) at After The Storm. She works exclusively with people who are childless. In this article she talks about self compassion and reflects on a podcast episode with Karin Enfield De Vries on how we may choose to transform ourselves as childless not by choice people.

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

Navigating the ‘Friendship Gap’: Finding Connection Beyond Childlessness

In April 2025, we explored one of the more quietly devastating aspects of childlessness not by choice: the loss of friendships. There’s a growing library of material around childlessness and the connection with grief, identity, and acceptance, but we’ve found that the unstable ground of friendships and how they fade, fracture, or disappear entirely is a conversation that remains largely in the shadows.

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

2025 Full Stop podcast topics

You’ve been asking, and here they are, the 2025 topics for the Full Stop podcast covering more themes around childless not by choice. Guest enquires are now open.

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

Childless and World Mental Health Day

If you haven’t thought about childlesss people in your workplace on World Mental Health Day and checked your content is inclusive, because we all have mental health, then that’s an exclusion. How do you flip it so everyone’s mental health is recognised?

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

Choosing a childless resource that works for you

It was quiet enough for me to ask the same man if that bothered him. If, on a wet September Monday afternoon, he might be fed up because the person who passed the window went into the shop over the road?

"But the next person or the person after that will stop here because we're a book town," he said knowingly.

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

How to gain the most from a podcast guest slot

Congratulations, you’ve scored a slot on a podcast. Maybe it’s the Full Stop? Here’s some advice that we’ve gained from our experience and gathered from our podcast community to help you get the best from your podcast guest opportunity.

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

10 benefits to podcast guests

Podcast guesting is an opportunity that allows people to tell their story and share their work. It can humanise the story through tone and voice and catch the attention of the audience. A podcast, according to The State of Marketing report by Hubspot, lists them as the fifth highest ROI (return on investment). Here are ten reasons why a podcast guest slot is a great opportunity.

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

Riverside

It’s been long overdue, we’re delighted to announce an update!

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

Swift, Newsweek and role models

For context, this is click bait (and a disclaimer, I’m not a Swiftie). I’m sure that in reading this, you might want to say ‘chill, Berenice, it’s just them making money through clicks and traffic’.  That’s very true but it’s also dismissing the targetting of a demographic where grief is present. Newsweek telling the world that we’re all terrible role models for circumstances, physical or medical events that aren’t our fault is extraordinarily hurtful. 

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

Who is the Full Stop Community for?

It’s perfect for people who listen to the Full Stop podcast and would like to get more involved in the longest running podcast for the childless community.

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

Feeling safe in coaching study

As with all groups comes the introduction. Like many who are childless, not by choice, I think about the words long before I say them. Being too honest can instantly create judgment or pity.

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

Be part of our December episode

Our December podcast is always popular even in August. Here’s how you can take part in sharing a holiday message with our audience.

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

International Men’s Day

Men’s health and well-being are at the heart of Episode 57 of The Full Stop podcast “Why is nobody talking about childless men?” It will be released for International Men’s Day on 19th November 2023 on our website and all major listening channels across the world.

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Berenice Howard-Smith Berenice Howard-Smith

Just us, with a fancy number

We collaborate, never compete, and invest in supportive relationships which is the best way to help all who are childless.

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